tantalize (TAN-tuh-lyz) verb tr., also tantalise
To tease or torment by showing something desirable but keeping it out of reach.
[After Tantalus in Greek mythology. Tantalus, a king of Lydia, was condemned to stand in Hades chin deep in water and under fruits that receded whenever he tried to drink water or eat the fruit.]
That eternally harassing, tantalizing future. Mystery! We will all eventually arrive there
- willing or unwilling, with all our soul and body. And too often it proves to be a great despot.
And so, in the end, I arrived too. Whether the future is a kind or a cruel god is,
of course, its own affair. Humanity too often claps with just one hand.
~ Pramoedya Ananta Toer

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